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Community Guidelines

HMU is built for real connections. These guidelines help everyone have a good experience.

Be Respectful

  • Treat everyone with kindness and respect
  • Don't discriminate based on race, gender, sexuality, religion, or any other characteristic
  • Respect people's boundaries and pronouns
  • Remember there's a real person on the other side

Be Authentic

  • Use recent photos that actually look like you
  • Be honest about who you are
  • Don't impersonate others or create fake profiles
  • Verified profiles build trust

Keep It Clean

  • No explicit or sexual content in public profiles
  • Don't share unsolicited intimate images
  • Keep conversations appropriate
  • No nudity in profile photos

Communicate Well

  • No harassment, bullying, or threatening behavior
  • Don't spam or send repetitive messages
  • No hate speech or slurs
  • If someone says no, respect it

Stay Safe

  • Don't share personal info too quickly (address, workplace, etc.)
  • Report suspicious behavior immediately
  • Never send money to people you meet online
  • Meet in public places first

Build Community

  • Help us keep HMU safe by reporting violations
  • Give people a fair chance before judging
  • Be the kind of person you'd want to meet
  • Spread good vibes

Zero Tolerance

These behaviors will result in immediate ban:

Threats of violence
Sharing others' private info
Sexual content involving minors
Promoting self-harm
Human trafficking
Scams and fraud
Underage users
Terrorism content

How We Enforce

Violations may result in:

WarningTemporary SuspensionPermanent BanLaw Enforcement Referral

See something that violates our guidelines?

Report a Concern