A Guide for Parents

We understand you want to keep your family safe online. Here's everything you need to know about HMU and how to have healthy conversations about online dating.

Important: HMU is for Adults Only

HMU requires all users to be 18 years or older. If you believe a minor is using our platform, please report it immediately. We take swift action to remove underage users and protect the community.

How We Keep Users Safe

Age Verification

All users must verify they are 18+ to use HMU. We use multiple verification methods to keep minors off the platform.

Content Moderation

AI-powered systems and human moderators review content 24/7 to remove inappropriate material and ban bad actors.

Easy Reporting

Users can report concerning behavior with just two taps. Our Trust & Safety team investigates every report.

Privacy Controls

Users control who can see their profile, send messages, and view their location. We never share data with third parties.

Block & Mute

Instantly block anyone. Blocked users cannot see the user's profile or send messages.

Community Guidelines

Clear rules about acceptable behavior, with escalating consequences for violations.

Warning Signs to Watch For

Whether it's HMU or any other online platform, here are signs that something might be wrong:

Spending excessive time on the app, especially late at night

Being secretive about who they're talking to

Sudden changes in behavior or mood after using the app

Receiving gifts or money from unknown sources

Making plans to meet someone they met online

Signs of distress when they can't access the app

Starting the Conversation

Talking about online safety doesn't have to be awkward. Here are some ways to start:

Ask Open Questions

"What kind of people do you talk to on the app? What do you like about it?"

Discuss Safety Together

"What would you do if someone made you uncomfortable online?"

Share Your Concerns

"I want you to have fun, but I also want to make sure you're safe. Can we talk about that?"

Set Boundaries Together

"Let's agree on some ground rules for meeting people online."

Tips for Parents

Be Supportive

Approach conversations with curiosity, not judgment. Your goal is to keep communication open.

Stay Informed

Learn about the apps and platforms your family uses. Understanding them helps you guide safely.

Model Safe Behavior

Practice good digital habits yourself—it sets an example for healthy online boundaries.

Questions or Concerns?

If you have questions about HMU's safety features or need to report a concern, our Trust & Safety team is here to help.