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Stay Safe, Have Fun
Meeting new people should be exciting, not scary. Here's everything you need to know to protect yourself while using HMU.
Protect Your Privacy
- •Never share personal info like your address, workplace, or school in early conversations
- •Use the app's chat feature instead of giving out your phone number right away
- •Be cautious about sharing social media handles until you've built trust
- •Don't include identifiable locations in your photos
Watch for Red Flags
- •Requests for money or financial help—this is almost always a scam
- •Asking to move off the app immediately to another platform
- •Refusing to video chat or meet in person after extended conversation
- •Inconsistencies in their stories or details
- •Pressuring you to share personal information or intimate photos
Meeting In Person
- •Always meet in a public place for your first few dates
- •Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting
- •Arrange your own transportation—don't rely on your date for rides
- •Keep your phone charged and with you at all times
- •Trust your instincts—if something feels off, leave
Stay in Control
- •Set your own pace—don't let anyone pressure you into anything
- •Use the block and report features if someone makes you uncomfortable
- •Limit alcohol on first dates so you can stay alert
- •Don't feel obligated to share your location or schedule
- •It's always okay to end a conversation or leave a date early
Video Chat Before Meeting
A quick video call is one of the best ways to verify someone is who they say they are. It can also help you get a sense of the vibe before committing to meeting in person.
- Use the in-app video feature for added safety
- Be mindful of what's visible in your background
- Pay attention if they avoid showing their face
Safety Resources
If you or someone you know is in an unsafe situation, these organizations can help.
Something Wrong?
If you've experienced harassment, abuse, or unsafe behavior on HMU, please report it immediately. Our Trust & Safety team reviews every report.
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